10. Bie!!!!!!

~ demi tiga intan payung saya ~

1. Be calm - kids will always do things to provoke u - mmg sengaja cari pasal! a gud mum should keep her temper,not yelling or screaming or throwing huge denda over small things!
tak berjaya buat bende ni 100% - sgt susah not to scream with 3 boys + a daddy around you....tapi percaya la my boys....semua jeritan,cubitan,pukulan, dan marah ibu adalah disengajakan demi untuk kebaikan....hehehe.

2. Be loving - sangat penting! tell kids that we love them - be supportive when they need it.wiping away tears n hugging them,no matter how big they get! yang ni lulus 100% - kekdg over sampaikan ada masa2nye iman or isymil jalan 3 batu kedepan or nun jauh dibelakang dari ibunye! tambah2 kat shopping mall.hampeh... 

3. Be patient - sometime you wish your kids would learn something like bullet train which is impossible, be responsible with their life without having to be reminded 500 times...mungkin lebih sebenarnya. kids are kids - mmg tercipta tuk menguji kesabaran kita! sabor je le...selalu menyabarkan diri sendiri tapi saya tahu tahap kesabaran saya masih wonderfull (jgn jeles) kecuali masa mengajar kelas malam!hohoho!
4. Be proud - it's a cliche thing! tapi ramai dari kita tak sedar how important it is to actually tell our kids that we're proud of them. kids need to know that, not ur friends or ur neighbours! manage to do this tapi frankly speaking dulu2 agak jarang memuji2 isymil sbb dia memanjang dgn omg blurnye!! never stop praying plus hoping n finally sgt bangga dgn isymil yg sungguh terserlah hero dgn pianonye. so proud of u isymil.....

5. Be yourself - it's important to be yourself around your kids - tak perlu jadi pelanduk 2 serupa! some parents are completely different people around their kids than they are around other people.kids WILL see this n sangat sedih bila anak2 menganggap it's appropriate behavior for them as well.bayangkan our kids ,depan kita mcm siput...belakang kita ,mcm singa! thank god iam being myself dgn anak2 since day 1 - they know me inside out! ayah lagi being HIMSELF!wahai anak2 , be yourself...jgn nak jadi pelakon sensasi!!!! 

6. Be there - wajib ni walau sibuk sekali pun! kids need us in their life,who pays attention in them n interested in them,who do things with them n ask about them.selalu mengingatkan diri sdiri to listen beria-ria dgn idung kembang teruja tiapkali anak2 bertanya or bercerita!berusaha bermati-matian to be there for my boys - dari lahir sampai la bila dah kawin nnt! kwang,kwang,kwang....so - beware my future menantu!
iman - isymil - ilham - kita doa sama-sama ya...moga all the 'be' above will be in ibu always and forever...